Monday, March 29, 2021

Randomness

What to do when you are struggling to come up with content? Post a bunch of pictures of life!

Our library opened back up for a few hours each day, and Trent is in heaven.
He's gotten into anime. He checks out 10 books at time - he reads them SO fast.

We had an event at the studio this weekend, and I had to get up early Saturday.
This was my view as I was leaving - the girls came into our room at 7:15 and both fell back asleep almost immediately! 

My parents kept the kids Saturday because Brent and I went to celebrate a friend's birthday at some local wineries. One of them had the most gorgeous view.


We hadn't gotten a Swope Six picture in a while.
Trent looks like he is having a blast, huh?
[He was mad at me]

Me and my daddy XOXOXOXOXOXO

Drew seriously fell asleep here. Think they stayed up late?

Little-by-little...THE BLUEBONNETS ARE POPPING UP!

How was your weekend?



Wednesday, March 24, 2021

Currently: Blank Space

I am struggling with content this month! Glad I have this old standard to fall back on. {grin}

Current Book

Some light and uplifting reading this week! Ha!

Current Song

Freaking Me Out - Ava Max

Current TV Show

Had to check this out from the library since it is no longer on Netflix!

Current Podcast/Audiobook

I didn't get the 2nd set of A Breath of Snow and Ashes {Outlander book 6} until yesterday afternoon, so I did some podcast research and landed on...


Current Drink

Has anyone tried Cherry Vanilla Coke?
You really shouldn't because it is beyond good.
Especially mixed with whiskey.

Current Food

Nothing is jumping out at me.
My cooking has been so pathetic and nonexistent lately!

Current Shame-Inducing Pleasure

You can guess why the cooking has been so pathetic lately.
Because I'm NOT eating like I'm supposed to. Sigh.

Current Outfit

Workout clothes with a NEW sports bra!!
Did a super fun jazzercise class today - 
realized on the way there I forgot to put on deodorant, oops.

Current Celebrity Crush

STABLER IS BACK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Current Mood

Is tired a mood? [See Current Picture below]

Current Anticipation

Spring is starting in central Texas, and I'm so ready for:
- Easter!
- green grass and spring flowers {still waiting on Bluebonnets though, sob}
- golf cart rides
- warmth and sunshine

Current Wishlist

We are microwave shopping.
Adulting is SO MUCH FUN!

Current Movie

This was SO.BAD. So, so, so, so bad.

Current Picture

Central Texas in spring sometimes involves hanging out in the interior windowless half bathroom while you wait out a tornado warning...at 11:00 PM.
Meaning you had to wake your kids up after they had been asleep for 3+ hours. 
And then it takes them over an hour to fall back asleep...

Not scary AT ALL...


Tuesday, March 23, 2021

My First Body Pump Class!

I taught my first Body Pump class on Saturday, and it went GREAT! 

Social media promo!!

As soon as I finished training, I was able to 'team teach' with a certified instructor, which I did maybe 5 or so times, and that was a HUGE help to being prepared. The very first time I taught I was shaking so bad from nerves/adrenaline, and every time after that I felt so much more confident.

My timeline for getting certified was pretty fast, and I was super okay with that because one the timer was counting, I just wanted to GET IT DONE. I had the greenlight to record starting February 8 with a deadline of submitting my video on April 8. I had to learn 10 routines and record an entire class which I did on February 28, submitted the video March 1 and got my pass on March 8. 

My official class starts March 30, and I'm really excited! But I got to sub for another instructor over spring break and it was so fun and went off fantastically. Luckily I wasn't nearly as nervous as I had been my first time getting up on the stage OR recording my video. I was a NERVOUS WRECK doing that and actually messed up in the second track and said 'F*ck' and sat down on the stage...so needless to say we had to start over. {grin}

The main thing I was nervous about was getting everything set-up correctly. I needed one device for music {our family - mostly Drew's - iPad}, a device to live stream for our customers who can't/don't feel comfortable coming to live classes {my phone}, my headset, and then I had to get everything turned on and working. Once all that was on/working and I started the first routine, I was all-in, and it went off without a hitch! Yay!

I'm going to be team teaching several times over the next week as we are launching a new release {once happens each quarter} and all the Pump instructors are going to do it together. So this week I'll be working on learning 4 new routines - I think that's going to be the hardest part for me at first - building set lists to keep it different/new/entertaining but also not taking up a lot of my time to do it!

My official class starts March 30 at 5:30 am, and the goal is to eventually be teaching Tuesday and Thursday mornings, but since this is a new class time for the studio we're starting with one day/week. I haven't consistently worked out early since pre-kids, so it's going to be an adjustment, but I'm also super excited!

Boom! Getting work DONE!

I only look a little bit manic in our after class group pic, ha!



Thursday, March 18, 2021

Reminiscing...One Year Later

Our kids are on Spring Break this week, and I can't help but think back to last Spring Break and what was going on at that time. Our 1 week Spring Break became '2 weeks to flatten the curve' and here we are a year later, ha. We are definitely in a much better position but it's all just SO WEIRD.

Let's take a little walk down memory lane, mmm-k?

I had a lot of anxiety about running out of food, so I did overbuy it.
I've had enough therapy to know how to handle that anxiety, so I did ok with it.

Book Club the night before the world changed.
The next day I started seeing all the information about staying home.
Really hoping I can see all these ladies in person NEXT MONTH!

I think this was the first Quarantine meme I saw and instantly loved it!

Texas at least showed up and gave us an AMAZING bluebonnet season.
This year...not so much. Due to the ice storm, I have seen very few bluebonnets.
I keep hoping they are just going to bloom late this year, eek. Super sad.

Our first family zoom! The kids did have fun, I promise.

Learning to work with the kids home EVERY day was super fun.


Jazzercise {corporate} and my local gym came through with online workouts!
A year later they are still going strong, and I'm so thankful!!

One upside was for sure lots of family time!


Our first porch girls night!! These are my ladies!

We found fun ways to celebrate holidays alone!
Bonus: I think we will go to church for Easter this year, 
and they can wear these outfits again, yay!

I learned to cut hair! But have since retired. {grin}

We definitely supported local businesses too!
Alcohol delivery FTW!

Looking back there were a lot of great memories that I could share, but I'll stop here. Yes, the last year has been hard, and I will be SO HAPPY when it's normal {whatever that means}, but it wasn't all bad!


Wednesday, March 10, 2021

Thoughts on International Women's Day

March is Women's History Month and Monday was International Women's Day. Anyone else not know about this? Just me? I felt real dumb when I read International Women's Day has been celebrated since 1911!

The older I get the more I try to reflect on, appreciate, and learn from these special months. I enjoyed continuing talking about diversity during Black History Month and learning about Black historical figures with the kids but hadn't thought much about Women's History Month before this week...mainly since I'd never heard about it! {grin}

HOWEVER, Monday, my company did an amazing celebration of Women with a 3-hour conference. It gave me all the feels and led me to really think about being a woman, being a girl mom, and what I want to BE as a woman/mother.

First, how amazing is this picture of my {female} hero and littlest lady love?
I took this Sunday, and it feels really special right now.

I started thinking about a few things I want to teach my girls. Some of these are very universal but some are also things that have evolved as I grow into my own as a woman.
  • Being happy in my own skin. There are several things I am uncomfortable with currently as I age - I am graying RAPIDLY, wrinkles are popping up quickly, my belly is full of saggy skin and stretch marks {thanks giant babies}, I have weight I want to lose. What I want my girls to see is that I love myself. I try really hard not to talk negatively about my body or to talk about weight and size. I tell my girls I exercise and eat good foods so I can have a strong body and live a long time, not so I can be skinny. This one is for sure a work in progress and I have a lot to learn about body positivity, but I'm getting there!
  • Natural is beautiful. Similar but also different from being happy in my own skin, I want my girls to know they don't need to change a single thing about themselves. I shared a few years back that I didn't want to dye my hair because it's a pain and expensive with hair this dark...but that doesn't mean I love my grays. I also get more self-conscious of my aging face as time goes on. But I decided a long time ago that I never wanted to feel like I couldn't leave my house without a full face of makeup, and so far, I still feel that way...most of the time. You will never see me getting Botox or having plastic surgery. I have no issues with anyone else do anything they want that makes them happy...but the example I want to set for my girls is that they are beautiful the way God {and their dad and I!} made them.
The shirt I just happened to be wearing on Monday!
  • Kind is cool. I don't want to raise mean girls. One of my flaws is a love of gossip, and I don't like that about myself. I want my girls to know better!
  • How to be a friend. Nothing is better than a group of women friends! For the support, unconditional love, ear when you just need to vent about your job/children/husband/anything! We are at our best as women when we support each other and there has been too much tearing each other down.
  • You can be anything you want! I want my girls to know the sky is the limit, and anything they want to achieve is possible.
  • Recognize your privilege. Just the other night, Trent and I talked about him hitting all the points of privilege {white, male, Christian, heterosexual, middle class}, and the girls hit almost all of them. I didn't understand privilege until more recently, and I want my girls to recognize their privilege early on and use it for good and to make the world a better place. As Layla Saad talks about often, I want to be a good ancestor and teach my girls that too.
The guest speakers of the conference were Lisa Ling and Viola Davis!
Their talks were SO inspirational, and I enjoyed learning from them.

As you can see I have a lengthy list of ideals I want for my girls. Obviously those won't all happen this month! {grin} My goal for the month is to share stories of the amazing things women have accomplished throughout history and instill pride in my little women. But I hope to also use this month as a launching point for a lifelong journey of celebrating and elevating the female voice!

Happy Women's History Month!


Friday, March 5, 2021

My Workouts

For the longest time I considered myself an athlete. I ran varsity track in high school, continued running and exercising all throughout college, joined a gym and maintained healthy habits in the early years of our marriage. Then I became a mom and couldn't for the life of me figure out how to be a mom, wife, employee, AND exercise. I didn't recognize myself for a long time - I was out of shape, heavier than I'd ever been, never worked out. 

I tried joining a Gold's Gym Express but missed the group exercise classes and never went. I couldn't motivate myself to do much at home. I joined Orange Theory but found it too repetitive. Then 2 1/2 years ago I discovered Amped Up where I go now and haven't looked back. I am the most active I've been in my adult life and, while I still have some weight I'd like to lose, am super happy with where I am. 

I thought it would be fun to talk about what I do for exercise these days!
  • Jazzercise - This used to be all Amped Up offered and is what got me moving again. I did Jazzercise with my mom when I was in college, so I was familiar with the format, and group exercise is definitely my jam. It's choreographed cardio with weight training and SO MUCH FUN. I love that I just have to show up and the awesome instructors have so much energy that you can't help but work hard and have fun.
Getting my 150 class tank on December 31 in 2019!
  • Running/Walking - I love taking walks with my wonderful neighbors/ second wives, but I decided to get back into running at the start of the COVID quarantine a year ago. Running used to be my main form of exercise and I hadn't run consistently since getting pregnant with Trent. Fun fact - I ran a Turkey Trot the Thanksgiving I was pregnant with him {5 miles} and HURT for days after. That was the last time I ran for YEARS. Ha! Now I'm running about once a week for 3-5 miles at just over a 10:00 minute/mile pace. Very proud of myself for getting back into this and keeping it up! My last run was Sunday - I went 4 miles at an average of 10:12/mile.
Kelly and me running in HS and in a virtual 5K over the summer
  • Body Pump - I can't leave off WHAT I'M CERTIFIED IN!!! I used to do Body Pump all the time pre-kids and love it so much. I love that it is a full body weight workout but you also get your heart pumping. It is such a good workout.
Messing around with 2 other instructors
  • Pop Pilates/Body Flow - In the last year I've also started adding in some pilates and yoga. I love that I have seen my flexibility and strength increase through these workouts as well...although the part of me that wants credit for my workouts doesn't like that these don't burn as many calories haha.
  • Body Combat - Another class more recently offered at the studio is Body Combat which is cardio kickboxing. It's fun and a killer workout, but I still lean towards Jazzercise the most because that is the MOST FUN. There's also a hip hop dance class called UJAM that I tried once and it was fun but dang am I not coordinated haha.
So that's all my variety of working out! I would say I do anything from 5-7 workouts I week. I try to have Sunday be either yoga/Body Flow or a more relaxed walk, but I love being so much more active now!!


Wednesday, March 3, 2021

Currently Part Deux: -ing

I'm trying this 'Currently' link-up for the first time, but I already do a monthly post called Currently, so I'm stumped on a name for MY post ha. All the prompts end in -ing, so that's what I'm going with for now!

Imagining

Y'all. I passed my Body Pump certification {yay!}, so I've been imagining what my new normal is going to look like once I start teaching which will probably be after Spring Break. There are going to be some adjustments that have to happen for me since I haven't worked out early in the morning in a LONG time and will be teaching at 5:30 AM!

Choosing

We are working on some house projects right now, and I'm choosing different colors, finishes, woods, styles, etc. Painting some rooms, changing out some doors, new storage in the closet and laundry room to make those rooms more functional! I'm so excited and of course will share when they are done.

Remember when I put these paint colors up TWO YEARS ago? Ha!

Making

I wish I had taken a picture, but my mother-in-law, Drew, and I picked fabrics over last weekend for her First Communion dress, and we're going to start making it on Friday! My MIL is the expert seamstress, and my job is pattern laying out and cutting, which I am pretty darn good at {once I remember how to do it}. My MIL and I are having a gurl date on Friday to watch the Downton Abbey movie {she's never seen it!} and get started!

Recommending

I got the girls these robes for Valentine's Day and am recommending them for any little girls in your life. Due to the storms in Texas, they didn't arrive for 10 days, but the girls LOVE them and wear them all the time. We had a spa day and they had a BLAST.

Aren't they so cute?!?!

Wearing

I'm ready to be wearing some new spring shirts I got at Grace & Lace! {Reminder, they are an Austin-based clothing company, love supporting local!} Aren't these just the cutest?



Monday, March 1, 2021

February 2021 Reads

Happy Monday and first day of March! Last week my computer was out of commission on Wednesday and Thursday, but after 2 trips downtown to my office, I am back up and running, so let's start off the month with a post about my favorite topics: BOOKS!


This month I read 12 books bringing my total for 2021 up to 22 books! I am rocking my goal of 100 books for the year. Warm up your coffee because I have A LOT to talk about today.


The Book of Lost Friends by Lisa Wingate - Another historical fiction story by Lisa Wingate {author of Before We Were Yours} about something I knew nothing about. After the Civil War, former slaves used to write blurbs that went into a section of a newspaper printed by churches called the 'Lost Friends' section trying to reconnect with family members who had been sold years earlier. This story follows a former slave who is searching for her family while she is sharecropping for her former master. The story alternates from the past to the 1980s with a new teacher in that same community. First, Lisa Wingate can write a story that tugs at your heart strings. Every other chapter, she put real Lost Friends posts into the book, and they seriously made me cry. Every day there is something new I learn that makes me mourn our past. But I did have a couple of problems with the book. First, Lisa is white and one of the protagonists is a Black former slave. I didn't love that, but I thought Lisa did handle the writing well. Second, in the present storyline, the teacher isn't white {she is half-Asian}, but it bordered on a 'white savior' plot. I think Lisa skated that well by having her not be white, but it was close. The story itself was very engaging, and I was rooting for both characters in their separate stories and was so interested to see how they fit together, but it did border a little for me with those few problems


Black Buck by Mateo Askaripour - Okay, I'm really struggling with this book y'all. The story follows Buck, who is starting a new job at a start-up because he impressed the founder while waiting on him at Starbucks. The things that happen to Buck are INSANE. The story is described as a dark satire, so I recognize that it is supposed to be over-the-top, but my brain STRUGGLED with that. The book very much is focused on systemic racism, but the things that happened... For example, on his first day at the new job, a super racist co-worker pours a can of white paint on Buck. And nothing happens. Again, I know this is satire, but seriously? The story overall was very entertaining, and Buck's evolution was awesome, but some of the more out-there plot points were too much for me. Again, fully recognizing they are SUPPOSED to be over-the-top...but I just couldn't fully engage with the story because of that.


A Vow So Bold and Deadly by Brigid Kemmerer - This was the final book in the A Curse so Fierce and Deadly trilogy that I started last year. It came out in February, and I got it immediately from the library. I was a little concerned how the series would tie-up as I was really torn with how the 2nd book ended. Well, I didn't need to worry, the author did a really great job of wrapping this story up, and I was so happy by the end. If you like YA fantasy, this one is GREAT.


The Cruel Prince by Holly Black - I know, I know. I started another YA fantasy trilogy. I'm sorry, I can't help it! Jude's parents were murdered when she was 7, and she and her sisters were taken to Faerie. Turns out her older sister was actually the daughter of a Faerie that her mom had married and escaped from. She is always viewed as a second-class citizen and struggles with trying to fit in while living in the home of the faerie who murdered her parents. I can't think of what else to say about this book without writing a ton, but it was really good. It started off slow, but the ending was BANANAS, and I can't wait to read the second book.


One Thousand White Women by Jim Fergus - This was our February pick for BFBC. We had a lot of mixed feelings about this, but none of us were in love with it, sigh. It is a fictional story about a woman who signs up to become an Indian bride after the Civil War to help bring the Native Americans 'in line' with the US. The story is told through journal entries and kept me entertained. I felt so much for all the characters {the women and Native Americans both}, and I thought the premise was so interesting! The author stated that a Native American tribe actually DID ask for white brides but the government said no, and he wanted to write a story as if they said yes. My issue was SO MUCH HAPPENED. It felt like watching a soap opera, and I struggled by the end with how fake it felt. It was definitely entertaining, I flew through it, but it just wasn't GREAT for me.


Homegoing by Yaa Gyasi - Well. Stop whatever you are doing right now {oh wait, that's reading this post...okay just make a note of this for later} and find this book at your local library or bookstore. This was PHENOMENAL. Set in Ghana starting in the 18th century, this follows 8 generations beginning with 2 sisters {each chapter moves a generation into the future and goes back and forth between the sisters' descendants}. One is sold into slavery so we follow her family to America, the other stays in Ghana and deals with the repercussions of the slave trade in Ghana. I couldn't put it down. It tackled a lot of issues in America with racism {the prison system, the drug epidemic, housing inequality...a lot}, but I also found it fascinating to read about the people still in Ghana. I never realized that they sold their prisoners to the British, married their daughters to the British, etc. so they participated in the slave trade too - and had to deal with that. SO FASCINATING to read both sides of it.


The Viscount Who Loved Me by Julia Quinn - Bridgerton #2! This story followed the oldest son, Anthony. I really like the characters Julia Quinn writes and was instantly sucked into this book. Yes, it's a typical Regency/Aristocracy romance, but I enjoyed it all the same! PG-13/R Rated.


History Smashers: The Mayflower by Kate Messner - I checked this out of our local library based on Emily's recommendation, and Trent and I read it {separately} and are both looking forward to reading more. I didn't learn until recently that my history lessons growing up leave a lot to be desired as they are based 99.9% on the POV of white men. I love the people out there trying to fix this, and this book was a great one for helping provide a better picture of our history. Definitely plan to keep reading these!


You'll Never Believe What Happened to Lacey by Amber Ruffin - When a comedy writer decides to write a book about all her/her sister's experience with racism you get this hysterical gem. The stories Amber and Lacey tell about their experiences with racism will blow you mind, make you shake your head, and vow to NOT be the people profiled in these stories. A book that makes you learn and make you laugh is always a winner in my book.


The Book of Lost Names by Kristin Harmel - This month's WW2 historical fiction pick, ha. This story follows Eva who was a forger in WW2 and helped get hundreds of Jewish children into Switzerland from France. I was REALLY excited about this book...and it underwhelmed a little. I for sure liked it, but Eva got on my nerves at times, and her mother drove me nuts. I also felt like the ending was a smidge cheesy. I'd love for someone else to read and let me know if I'm being too critical, ha.


Fix Her Up by Tessa Bailey - This was contemporary romance through-and-through, and I am here for it! Georgie has always had a thing for her brother's best friend, Travis, who happens to be a professional baseball player. Travis returns to their hometown after an injury ends his career, and sparks fly when Travis and Georgie reconnect. I enjoyed this from page 1. I haven't read anything else by Tessa Bailey, but I really felt like she wrote good, enjoyable characters with fun banter who I just liked. HOWEVER, parts of this were eye-rollingly cheesy. Georgie is a professional clown. Yes. You read that right. Things like that were almost too goofy for me, but the strong character interactions won me over. This is the start of a series, so I'll definitely keep reading. 100% R-rated.


Our Darkest Night by Jennifer Robson - I have been eagerly anticipating Jennifer Robson's newest book for a LONG time. I have read everything she has written and just love her books. They, so far, have all been about WW1 and WW2 but have all bet set in London or with British characters. This one was set in Italy during WW2 and for all my WW1/2 reading {40 books!}, this was my first story set in Italy. It followed Nina, a young Jewish woman, who pretends to be married to Nico and moves to his farm to hide her identity. They must deceive everyone in Nico's family and the small community he lives in. This was such a beautiful book. It was a quiet story, slowly building on itself but I was quickly loving every character and rooting for Nico and Nina. Jennifer Robson has a gift of storytelling, and I am already excited for her 2022 release. {grin}

I didn't share last month what I was reading for the kids, but I do enjoy talking about that. Drew and I started Harry Potter in 2021, and we are in the middle of Harry Potter and the Chamber of Secrets. She is LOVING all things Harry Potter, and I'm loving sharing it with her!


Trent and I are reading From the Desk of Zoe Washington. I've been really struggling finding books to read with Trent. He is very picky, and I suggest a ton of books to him, and he turns his nose up at them. But we are both really enjoying this one! On her 12th birthday, Zoe gets a letter from her father who is in prison. She's never had any contact with him and starts exchanging letters with him where he eventually tells her he is innocent of the crime he was convicted of (murder). Meanwhile she is also doing a baking internship {I was worried the baking would turn Trent off} and dealing with pre-teen friendship issues. It is really a good book! It touches on systemic racism, the broken justice system, and other hard topics, but in a way that I think is perfect for Trent's age group. My only hesitation with younger kids is the murder issue itself, might be something a parent doesn't want to discuss with their younger children. Also, there are lots of great song references that Trent and I are having fun listening to!


And this is the haul I just picked up at the library for Paige. A lot of selections from Here Wee Reads Top 50 Books of 2020! Yay!

I told y'all it was a long post! What are you reading? Anything jump out at you from my recent reads?