Monday, January 10, 2022

The Failure of 2021 Goals

I thought I would mix things up instead of just doing a bunch of recaps that I want but don't know who actually enjoys reading them. {grin} So I still need to post about Christmas, our trip to Ruidoso, and the girls' birthday stats, I'm going to share the results of my worst year of goal setting ever. [Original post here]

Health Goals

1. Develop a better relationship with food and 2. Hit goal weight - let's just say a big fat nope and move on, shall we. I'm feeling really awful about these goals and where I stand compared to them and they will both be ongoing goals until I master them...so probably until I die.

3. Keep running - also nope. I think I ran twice in 2021. My running buddy moved away, and while we promised to keep running together, it didn't happen, and I don't like running alone! The upside is not running didn't mean I wasn't working out! I definitely maintained my workout schedule of 5-6 workouts/week, so I'm very happy about that.

4. Increase my flexibility - Success! One goal that I can say I did a good job with. I go to Pilates or Yoga about once a week, and I can really see a difference in my flexibility. I even had some success with the Mermaid Pose - I can't hit it every time I try, but I definitely have made progress.


5. Eat more vegetables - This is hit or miss. If I'm in the groove with food, I'm doing good, and if I'm not, I'm not. Will continue on as a goal, sigh.

Family Goals

1. Create a chore list for the kids - As an official list, no. As me telling them to do chores, yes. Are we doing it consistently? Also no, ha, but we have made progress here.

2. Get an evening schedule going - This is continuing to evolve and get better, but I still feel like we could improve here. Part of this involves having the kids perform chores in the evening to help clean the kitchen and that isn't happening. But we are doing well overall with an evening routine...minus that part ha.

3. Kid dates - I'm going to give myself a C- here. I took the girls to several movies but didn't do nearly as much as I planned and really almost nothing with Trent 1-on-1. Not to say I didn't spend time with him but not much, eek.

4. Travel as a family - Here's one we did, yay! We went to Brent's cousin's house, to the lake, and our vacation to Ruidoso!!!

NYE in the mountains!

Personal Goals

1. Read the Bible - Nope. But I'm not giving up...Eventually I will do this!

2. Close all monthly challenges - I got 10/12, so almost 85%! They got harder each month, and I finally got to the point where I just couldn't do it anymore for my mental health! I hit all but September and November.

3. Book goals - I did really good here and will do a whole book post later this month.
 - Read 100 books - I hit 124!
 - Continue to reduce the pile of physical books in my room - well, I definitely read/got rid of some old books in my 'pile' but also added to it ha. I think I'm going to track what I get for the pile and get rid of in 2022!
 - Educational books - Looking at my reads from 2021, I'd say 10 or so I would classify as 'educational', so I'm happy about this!
 - Books by/about POC - I wanted to increase my percentage from 25%, and I hit over 30% this year!
 - Classics - I wanted to read 2 books but only read 1 {I Know Why the Caged Bird Sings}. One of my neighbors and I have picked a couple to read this year together, so this should be easier this year!

So there we have it. A very lackluster year of goal achievement. I'm still working on my goals for 2022, but don't be surprised to see some repeats since I did such a crappy job of accomplishing these, ha.


Friday, January 7, 2022

A Weekend of Firsts

We're going to have to take a step back to the first weekend of Winter Break. It's going to take me a hot minute to blog everything I want to about the past few weeks! But our first weekend of break included a lot of firsts for our family worth sharing.

First up, Drew finished her first season of volleyball! It was crazy how bad all these little girls were at first, I mean B.A.D. Little by little, they got better over the season and I loved watching Drew practice and work to get better! 

Her winning serves in her last game!

Her adorable team! She is standing between 2 of her besties - Raina and Zara.
 I hope she will keep playing!

THEN, later in the same day, we took Paige to get her ears pierced for the first time! She has wanted her ears pierced since she was 3.5, and the only reason we waited was because of stupid Covid. We got it done at Target with their Hey Rowan stands - done by a registered nurse and not with the ear-piercing gun. It took about 30 seconds to pierce both ears and Paige did great!

A little unsure {since it did hurt} but also loving it, ha.

The next first, in the same day, was the kids all roller-skating at a rink for the first time! This was HILARIOUS. They were all terrible at first but slowly got better! I have a million amazing videos but will limit myself. {grin}


Pretending to fall with Brinley

Drew and Paige getting so much better!

You can see Trent up at the top of the video killing it!

Sunday we had the first party for Paige away from home. Yay for no prep or cleanup! We celebrated at her gymnastics place, and she had a blast.

How does she look SO BIG?!


Why does Drew have to do this? sigh.

So loved and lucky

Our last first was taking care of the chickens Trent's class is responsible for. Their community has a micro-economy and have several ventures to raise money for their class. Over winter break, the chickens needed to be taken care of and we signed up for a few days. Trent was SO good with the chickens, it was really sweet to see him so nurturing to them.



See? I wasn't kidding that we had a lot of firsts ha!