Monday, September 16, 2019

Room Re-Wrangle

We are coming upon a monumental landmark in our household... it's time to rearrange all the kids into new rooms!!! AHHHHH!

When we moved into our house, we still didn't have a clear idea for baby #3 {we built a 4-bedroom house yet Brent would flip back and forth over whether he wanted a third}, so we decided to put Trent {so sad, no 'official' pics of his room} and Drew {room tour here} in the bedrooms that shared a bathroom and leave the 4th bedroom - that has a private bath - as a nursery or guest room until Trent and Drew needed a little privacy.

Enter Paige {hallelujah!!!!}, and we set up her nursery in the private room because it was just easier and we didn't know her gender so we weren't sure who needed to share a bathroom. We knew we'd have to make moves since we had opposite genders sharing a bathroom - it just makes sense to give the solo gender the private bathroom. It worked out so well that Paige is a girl because the sharing a bathroom could be weird between Trent and his brother 7.5 years younger!

That was a lot of lead-up to get to the main point - Paige has started climbing out of her crib {and hurting herself}, so the time is upon us! Honestly, this is one of my LEAST favorite transitions as a parent - the cribless freedom! Fun reminder of Trent's first night in his converted crib!

So here's the plan: Trent moves to Paige's room with the private bathroom, Drew moves into Trent's room, and Paige moves to Drew's room since it's the smallest of the 3. Yup, you read that right - ALL CHILDREN ARE MOVING ROOMS AT THE SAME TIME PAIGE WILL BE TRANSITIONING OUT OF HER CRIB. To say I am overwhelmed and a little scared...is an understatement! {grin}

Tentative timeline:

  • The kids have a week off school over Thanksgiving, and I plan to take off work with them - I think this is when we will tackle who is sleeping where. Paige has stopped climbing out for the time being {and tells me 'Mommy, I stayed in my bed and called for you!' so I think we're okay to wait a little longer}. Given the effort that has gone in to get our kids to stay in their rooms once they have freedom and GO THE EFF TO SLEEP, I think it'll be key that I don't have to work. If anyone has tips for how they effectively handled this transition, I'd love to hear them!
  • We can take apart Paige's crib and Trent's bed, and put mattresses down for Drew and Trent in their new rooms. Paige can immediately start sleeping in Drew's bed - she is keeping the bed, bedding, dresser, and nightstand.
  • Wall decor will get stripped off the walls during Thanksgiving break - except for some of Drew's stuff which is staying up for Paige.
  • We will also work ssslllooowwwlllyyy over this week to start moving stuff from room-to-room. All the shoes one day, all the clothes in the closet, etc.
  • Drew's new room will get some paint, I hope to do that one weekend between Thanksgiving and Christmas and have her sleep somewhere else. She is also getting an antique bed from Brent's mom that we are going to get my dad to paint. Painting the room will be easier before the new bed comes in.
  • Trent is getting bunk beds, so we'll need to order that to come in over Christmas as well.
  • Then we need to decorate the big 2 rooms, but I'm not as worried about that.
What we need to buy:
  • Trent's bunk beds - our tentative set has a built-in desk and dresser - it's so cool looking!
  • Bedding for the top bunk - he wants to keep his current quilt so that makes it easy! And it's a standard print from Pottery Barn, so even 7 years after we got his quilt, they still have it!
  • Book shelf for Trent! That kid has books overflowing every space in his room. There's a really cool DIY one with pipes coming out of the wall that I am entertaining the idea of...
  • Wall decor for Trent {he's keeping his 2 Star Wars posters which surprises me, but his current room is pretty lame already, so we'll need to get him more}.
  • Bedding for Drew's new bed since she's going from a twin to a full.
  • Paint for her walls. So thankful Trent is being so chill about all this - he said he just wants the stars to come down off Paige's wall but the paint can stay!
  • Possibly a new dresser for Drew - we're not totally sure what we'll do with some of the existing furniture we have. Her new bed is a Jenny Lind style {like her crib, which I LOVE}, and I found a Jenny Lind dresser...so I'm debating.
  • Wall decor for Drew - she wants to keep just a couple of things from her current room.
  • Wall decor for Paige - we won't need much since a lot of Drew's stuff is staying in that room - but we'll need a few things.
I'm sure I've forgotten to list out - and think of - some steps, but I think this covers the big picture and also hopefully highlights why I'm stressed out, ha.

Any good advice for 1) making this an easy transition for Paige, and 2) making this not a GIANT project for me?


Wednesday, September 11, 2019

Ten Years of Motherhood

My mind cannot wrap itself around the fact that I've been a mother for a DECADE. I honestly can barely remember what I used to do before I was a mom. Thinking about all the time I had to myself...what a life ha!

I know my age has grown a DECADE, I technically know my baby boy is now a TEN-YEAR-OLD - which did you know this is considered a pre-teen - but it just seems crazy to think of how long I've been a mom.

That time I got really drunk and didn't know I was pregnant. October 2008

Celebrating a pregnancy that took! While not knowing I was pregnant. October 2008
Hi baby Miles!!!

Baby on board {and I didn't know it} October 2008

I thought it'd be fun to think about the pre-mommy Allena and her ideas and laugh at me!

Things I swore I would never do:
-Bribe with food - I read something once that using food as a reward teaches kids to view food that way and can lead to food issues later on. While I would highly bet this is true, I am NOT above saying 'If you do xxx, I'll give you yyy.' {I used it yesterday!}
-Excessive screen time - No way were my kids going to spend hours on screens. They would have way less than the recommended time! Yeah right. This one is such a battle, but we do have days where I don't care and we all go to town!
-Not closely policing YouTube - This is probably a bad one to admit, but we don't police what the kids do online as much. Brent and I have both admitted we need to get better about this!

What just happened to me?!?!

Things that used to freak me out:
-Babies barfing {largely because Trent didn't throw up ever until he was 7} - now I can catch it in my hands and keep right on rocking. Now that's not to say my heart still doesn't break when my babies are throwing up, but I can deal with it like a champ!
-Ear infections, the flu - I was scared of all illnesses but was so conflicted about antibiotics and vaccines. Now a lot of people might not agree with how I treat and prevent illnesses, but I'm confident at least!
-My kids growing up {I used to think it would be so 'boring' to not have babies} - I can remember seeing people with older kids and feeling sorry for them - isn't that nuts? Now I see how much FUN it is to have older kids. It's less work in some ways {they can help with chores, get their own snacks, little night wakings, etc.}, but of course the problems do get bigger as the kids get bigger!
-Feeling like I wasn't giving them undivided attention - I struggled with this big time as a part of my post-partum journey. I had such guilt about not giving ALL of my attention and effort to my kids. Now I am THRILLED when they play alone or with each other, and I say quite often 'Dad and I had more kids so y'all would play with each other.'

I'll be really curious to see where I end up in the next 10 years when I have an adult and 2 teens!!!