Thursday, December 10, 2015

Genetics...Part 2

*I apologize in advance. This post about all things MTHFR might be a little too science-y and boring, but I find this all extremely fascinating, especially the more I learn about it.*

One of the things I wanted to do after figuring out Trent has the MTHFR gene mutation was figure out where it originated and also if Drew has it as well. I figured I'd eventually do the same spit test Trent did, but when I went in for my annual and talked about it with my OB, she recommended we do it now with blood work. {I assumed I would be the one who passed it along, and both my OB and my primary care physician thought my history of post-partum was a good indicator it was me as well.}

And....drumroll please...

It's me!!!!!

For a simple science lesson, there are 2 problematic mutations on the MTHFR gene - one is at the A1298C point and the other is at C677T {which is more serious}. Given that we get a set of genes from each of our parents, a person has the potential to have 2 copies of each mutation. Trent has 1 copy of the C677T mutation {so he's heterozygous}, and I have 1 copy of each mutation {so I'm compound heterozygous}. The number of mutations you have and which gene your mutation is on determines how well you methylate. If you want to read more about what the mutation can do, this is a pretty good article that isn't too confusing.

The below chart shows approximately how well someone methylates with each mutation. {I circled me and Trent.} 



As with any condition out there, some people have a lot of symptoms that are connected to MTHFR while others have few. From what I'm reading, Trent's symptoms should have been a flashing light for anyone who knows about MTHFR. Luckily for me, I have a friend who does - and she has the same mutations as me - I find that highly amusing. {I was talking to her last night and told her that she literally changed my life and Trent's life. I will forever be indebted to her for her constant nagging gentle pushing to get Trent tested.}

This leads to such a waterfall of thoughts and emotions - mostly good and exciting. My sister wants to get herself tested {given I have 2 mutations, it's highly likely she has some} - could that explain her multiple miscarriages? We want our parents to get tested - I {we?} obviously got this from somewhere and if this simple test could help prevent Alzheimer's, heart disease, cancer {among so many things} for my parents, wouldn't that be amazing? Does this explain my mother's gut issues? What positive things could this potentially do for my niece and nephews?

It also frustrates me so much that so few people in the medical community know about this. First, when I think of all the doctors and specialists we saw for Trent and not one of them suggested this testing, I get really irritated. How many other children are these neurologists, behavioral therapists, and PhDs treating that a simple blood test and a daily dose of folate could help? Second, I have 3 friends who all have the homozygous mutation for C677T. All 3 have some combination of a history of fertility struggles and miscarriages. One friend only got tested because I suggested it {and her fertility doctor downplayed the results}. Could her mutations be the cause of her 3 unexplained {and devastating} miscarriages? And knowing she's homozygous, she knows each of her parents have at least 1 mutation - does this explain some of the debilitating issues happening to her mom right now? When will this testing become commonplace? It definitely needs to be NOW!

I checked in with my doctor to confirm my protocol and ask about Drew. I am curious if, at a minimum, she has a 50% chance of having a mutation {if Brent has any mutations, her chances just rise}, should we test her now or treat her in any way. Our doctor said to go ahead and start using the cream we use on Trent, and we can decide at a later date to test her.

So I now spend a lot of time learning {and talking} about MTHFR. I think it's pretty darn fascinating if you can't tell by how long this post is. If you are still reading this, you either have a mutation {hi Laura! haha} or just really like my blog. {grin}

Wednesday, December 9, 2015

Christmas in the Big Apple

Life as a Gurley gurl is a lot of fun! My mother-in-law just took me and my sister-in-law {Crystal} to NYC for 3 days. We had such a blast! It was my 3rd trip to NYC, but Crystal's first time. Also, the other 2 times I have been, I've stayed with family, so staying in a hotel in Time Square was definitely a new experience.

Our flight out Sunday morning left at 6:15. I got up at 3:30. Ouch

Ready to hit the streets! {Cab ride from the airport}

We knew we definitely wanted to see a Broadway play, and my mother-in-law wanted to take us to see The Rockettes Christmas Spectacular. But we decided to wait until we got there to buy tickets to get them cheaper. So day of we bought tickets for Jersey Boys. I've seen about 10 Broadway plays - in NYC, Chicago, Vegas, and through Broadway Across America's national tour. Wicked is still my WAY favorite, but I LOVED Jersey Boys - it is probably my #2. It was so amazing! Before the show, we had lunch at The Brooklyn Diner near Times Square and just walked around a bit.

Our hotel room wasn't ready, so we had to go to the play in our travel clothes. 
#classy

You know I had my oils going to keep out the germs!

In between the show and dinner, I FaceTimed with the family. Drew was so happy to see me. She told Brent earlier in the day that when I was done with my airplane, I could come home. She immediately asked me to hold her and kept kissing the phone and asking to climb into the phone. So sweet. Trent was pretty much too busy playing Legos to do more than give me a cool hello.

We aren't happy at all, are we?


One of the weird things about my job is that I have only met 1 person {of 6} on my team. We live all over the country {Austin, Atlanta, Chicago, Stamford, San Francisco, and NYC}. Knowing that I was coming to town, my NYC co-worker came to dinner with us at Ellen's Stardust Diner. This is where the wait staff are all people who want to be on Broadway, so they sing throughout dinner. It was AWESOME! Risa and I talk every day, multiple times a day for work. So it was so neat to finally meet her in person.

Allena and Risa - love at first sip.

After dinner, Risa walked around with us to look at all the amazing Christmas lights and decorations.


We were able to go inside St. Patrick's Cathedral for just a few minutes before closing.
We attended mass here the first time I went to NYC when I was 15.

Neat Lego display of Radio City - had to take a pic for my Lego lover.

Amazing lights on Saks!

After that, we went home and it was lights out!

Since we were only in NYC for essentially 2 days we decided to do a Hop-on, Hop-off bus tour to see as much as we could quickly.


Our first tour guide was hilarious! He was flirting with Janet!

We got off the bus at Central Park to take a walk through the park.

Strawberry Fields - a tribute to John Lennon {by The Dakota}

So cool to have a giant park in the middle of that city!

We saw a 5:00 PM show of the Rockettes. One word can sum that up: WOW!



The Live Nativity was amazing!


That night we did a night Hop-on, Hop-off bus, but it didn't go where the map said it would {over the Manhattan Bridge into Brooklyn}, so it was more of the stuff we had seen the night before. After that, we had dinner at a restaurant my MIL found last year by our hotel, and Crystal and I miiiiiight have over-imbibed on Strong Island Iced Teas. We had so much fun!

Tuesday was another Hop-on, Hop-off bus - we took the Downtown bus to be able to see the 9/11 Memorial. We went through St. Paul's Cathedral that talked a lot about 9/11. So very moving to see it all. It makes me so confused as to why there is so much hate in this world. Why are there people out there who want to kill others just for being different? I love how America comes together in the face of tragedy - why can't we be that strong all the time?



After this, it was time to head home! We had some travel delays, so I didn't get home until about 12:30 Wednesday morning, so I'm beat. Totally worth it though for such an amazing trip!